Nick Vujicic without arms and legs but with girlfriend

The Australian preacher Nick Vujicic, Born with Tetra-amelia syndrome, a rare disorder characterized by the Absence of all four limbs.
today Friday August 5 recently signed on to marry his girlfriend who was courtingKanae for a while and say they are deeply in love.  They are very excited to be committed to marriage and share the rest of their lives together.
In facebook Nick Vujicic sais ¨The biggest blessing I've received, after life, salvation and a relationship with God¨ Meet Nick and Kanae compromised.
In the picture published his bride appears with an engagement ring profoundly happy.

This helps us to think, If a man with no arms and one foot missing, you can conquer a woman beautiful and special as it is Kanae, why you could not be happy in your feelings?.
The Bible says I can do all in Christ, because He strengthens me.

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Second Commandment: Use your brain

Second Commandment: use your brain based on the book The Ten Commandments of Dating, written by Dr. Samuel Adams and Ben Young


Many undertake the adventure of knowing your partner with the desillusion of romantic love, romantic love has unfortunately little to do with the true love.Is a desilution to believe that love is just a feeling or emotion, is a decision that involves thinking very well who will be our partner in life.


The real love (agape) is a form of love demonstrated by 2 people who care deeply about each other and are occupied by the other's welfare. Romantic and true love are distinct conditions. Is the decition to seek the good of others, no matter what. The Agape includes: Education, support, encouragement, acceptance and companionship.

Do you value the Romance? Yes, the romance and passion enhance the relationship but not the base.


Proponents of romantic love can interfere with the ability to use your brain: emotions, hormons, and false spiritual directions.


a. - Dating Driven By Emotions .- When are guided by what they feel. Both feel like he or she has no equal, get married without knowing of their families, friends, customs etc. But after getting divorced, it is dangerous to marry based on love at first sight, second sight enables you to think clearly if the right person.

b. - Dating Powered by hormones .- The sex drive is "void" your brain, when they wake up the brain hormone is zero, your brain starts to fall, this process takes 20 min. in women and 3 seconds in man.

I remember the case of a young married because their partner did so completely happy sexually, but this changed in the marriage, she ended up thinking that used sexual attraction to bring to marriage.

c. - Dating Driven by the false guidance of the Spirit .- There are people who spiritualize their courtship, using base: God told us to get married. ¨ God gave me a word ¨ It is clear that if God speaks, you should talk to two people. A false prophetic word, a dream where you see they get married. For those seeking direction for the marriage, they are given direction but not manipulation.


Lest you dash, refrain from:


- Physical Intimacy: Avoid touching, kissing and sex, will not push you hormones if not the reason.

- Includes one in the process of knowing: There is nothing better to know a person than knowing your friends and family, the flirtation process is common to place masks that trick.

- Test your knowledge: Think coolly if the relationship is healthy or not, who thinks that things can change in an almost magical end up disappointed.

- Keep the balance between mind and your heart: Do not let your emotions control you, nor rationalize all things, maintaining the balance is na wise decision.


If physical contact began to dominate you and do not bother to continue to build emotional intimacy, to follow knowing you're facing a danger, speeding is what causes accidents.


To build a lasting relationship:

- Analyze your past relationships and learn from your mistakes: There are wounds from past relationships, traumas and prejudices, every relationship is different, you can not shut you down for something that happened.

- Include others in the process of knowing, listen to the views of people who love you, hear their warnings, not just get carried away by your emotions.

- Do not overlook opportunities to make assessments, getting caught up in your emotions will bring you a great pity.

- Review the Pros and Cons of your relationship: Place your relationship on a scale and carefully examine whether it is worth and will be something lasting.

- Refrain from physical intimacy, the more we refrain from physical contact, more special is when they are truly united, this will help build a true friendship. To be physically affectionate, especially when you start with the sexual, the friendship suffers and sometimes falls apart.


Consequences of disobeying this command:

You will be disappointed to discover major flaws in your partner.

You'll feel abandon @ by God because He "allowed you to" enter into that relationship.

You'll feel uncomfortable embarrassed by not realize from the beginning.


BENEFITS obey this command:

Know make wise decisions.

First commandment: Live your life

Yesterday  I was talking with a friend, she is in a love relationship and she wants to reach a new level with her partner and decide whether to continue to the next step of engagement, but she was very confused, sad and depressed because things are not outgoing as she wanted. For those who are in a similar situation, I recommend the book The Ten Commandments of Dating , written by Dr. Samuel Adams and Ben Young

Today we are begining an analysis of the teachings of this book:

First Commandment: Live your life 

When a relationship breaks down you wonder what went wrong? Who's to blame? Why this relationship failure?

* If a relationship fails it can be because you have no life, your family was your life, this is where all the self-esteem is based on the couple and the couple have no life. This is the first and fundamental commandment: !live your life ! ! Live and keep your life !.
For a person with own life, marriage does not is his biggest goal, they do not have to have a relationship to feel good, they do not put their hope in the church, bar, internet, etc. to find "the right person." 
Relationships and marriage are important goals, but if you take the fore in your life, you have a problem.
If you have no life of its own (your career, interests, friends and even your relationship with God) will not be happy even if you're dating, why? fall in love and marry, Because you have nothing to contribute to the relationship and your boyfriend will absorb up to dry, and put your expectations on your partner to satisfy you, you complete, you will happy and in peace.

If you do not put into practice this commandment the following can happen:

- NO LIFE : People who are living a non-life have something in common, they have consumed so much trying to find someone who meets their needs and give them a meaning, his life has been made in the background. These people believe they can not believe that there is fun and worth living without a "Companion" and the feel of the Non-Life are:
A. DESPERATION: has a sense of urgency to find a partner and fill the void in them, the emergency strategy to join the other couple scares instead of attract them feel scared and away terrified .
B. GUEST: getting a dependent and safety significance. Must be with that person to feel good. Become unable to make their own decisions. If you relate to a person who depends on you, sucks your vitality and if both are dependent on this is even more unbearable. As human beings to some extent depend on others for certain needs that is normal and healthy, but if you join a person with a non-life, relying too heavily on you, to get to cover most of their needs and the provision of identity.
People with a non-life refuge on TV, Films, Job, Ministry, Internet, Games, etc.
If you've noticed after reading this, somewhere that describes you, team up with people of both sexes have their own goals, etc.
- DEPRESSION AND LONELINESS: The feelings of depression and loneliness are complaints from everyone who believe that someone else can make them happy, it affects physical, emotional and spiritual.
This depression has features such as unhappiness, melancholy, lack of energy, and withdrawing from others, there is also a drop in self-esteem.
Example:. A time ago one young man with this kind of life had several failure relationships, to avoid the problem he refuge himself in internet, and watch TV, it worsened their situation. The risk of depression is more dangerous than when you shrink this even much more, and may include symptoms such as: loss of appetite, sleep, difficulty concentrating, this has to star a therapy, this young man was in therapy and now grows more friends .
 
- DETACHMENT: This person is separated from social relationships, the desire to spend time with friends, community involvement, or serve in the church is gone .

-HOW TO LIVE:
a. - Have a base: Have a strong identity recognizes your worth until you feel confident and secure. By having a strong identity will not be disturbed or destroyed by a "bad time", words spoken to you. Many of us deal in our outward appearance, hair, face, body, clothes, possessions, racing to feel of value. It is arranged externally to improve the internal.
There is nothing wrong with exercise, dress well, study, but if you pursue these things that give you a sense of self-esteem then you will always be looking for ....
Self esteem is not something that is acquired, this is not buying is something you already own.
Your value as a child of God is incalculable, accept yourself, love yourself, respect yourself. When you see yourself as God sees you will be free of insecurity and fear.
b. - Join Groups: You were created to be united with others. There must be people who will listen where you reveal your concerns.
c. - Search Goals: Have your goals in writing. (People who have been most successful are those that had put their goals in writing)
d. - Give: The key to a life of misery and loneliness is: look for their own pleasure.
e. - Build: Grow requires a willingness to study, improve, explore.
Success comes from good discernment, and this comes from experience, and this of making mistakes.

CONSEQUENCES for disobey this command:
- Being depressed and  loneliness.

BENEFITS for obey this command:
- Self confidence, stability and enthusiasm for life will inevitably attract other like a magnet.
- You will have something to share, will be interesting to hear you, and you will get more friends.
- You can not undue and excessive pressure on your partner to satisfy your emotional needs and feel satisfied.
This left them both free to be yourself and recognize each other as independent.

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